Desperation & Bad Decisions

As a married man, you have to be in a fairly desperate position to pay a prostitute for sexual favors. Ladies, if your husband says it is your fault for not giving him what he desires in the bedroom that is an EXCUSE to justify his:

Behavior

Lack of accountability

His attempt to lower your self-worth.

Long term sex/porn/drug addiction.

 
To mask:
The appearance of a happy marriage.

To protect his reputation within his family.

To uphold his standing in the community as being wholesome. 

When someone sees through the mask, the narcissist retaliates with:
 

• Increasing volatile eruptions
• Angry outbursts
• Attempts to cover their “sins” by blaming or denying.
• Plays victim.
• Begins liquidating assets, hiding money, allocating assets to a third party to prevent paying alimony, evade taxes, pretending to be tapped out of money.
• An attempt to attack the “mental” competence” rendering the spouse unable to work and make a living.
• Underhanded and manipulative tactics such as increasing deception, pathological lying, gaslighting, triangulation.

You are dealing with a narcissist. Nothing you do or say will please them. It will always be your fault. Arm yourself with knowledge to use in the upcoming battle.

• Protect yourself.
• Protect your assets.
• Protect your children.
• Do NOT allow him to suck you dry. 

(This is a work of fiction. Any names or characters, business or places, events or incidents are fictitious. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.)

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