Although it is possible to trick an empath, it is near impossible. Being highly attuned to the environment, we pick up on people, places, things, and events that don’t seem quite right before most people do. We can neither be manipulated nor lied to. An empath may pick up on dishonesty, a deceitful person or one who is up to foolishness. We know who wears a mask of deception, and the one who is comfortable in their own skin, not afraid to show the world.
We are your greatest allies in the courtroom. We read the energy of a crime scene that has been staged, feeling and sensing the volatile emotions of passion and rage, and following the energy trail step by step, directing the investigation towards murder, not suicide. We hone our abilities to lead and guide us to find concrete evidence, taking all viewpoints into consideration leading us to successful conclusions.
We know the intentions of the guy/girl you are dating. We know who wants to date you and who will play mind games, with an extra helping of ghosting. We can guide you in your dating adventures, using background checks as the basis for determining your dates honesty and integrity.
We pick up on someone’s sadness and loss, even if they don a happy, extroverted front. Because we absorb so many energies from the people around us, we can appear moody and have changing emotions depending on the emotions and feelings of others around us. It is vital for an empath to check in each morning to see where their pain (if any) is, and how they feel emotionally or mentally. Our emotions are balanced like a lake, and only stirred when confronted, metaphorically, with torrential downpours, wind or the shift of tides.
We know if the business partner expecting an offer from your firm is trustworthy and reliable. We also know which ones lack follow through, who engage in unhealthy means of communicating or dishonest business practices. In short, we guide your decisions when choosing who to go into business with, who to hire and if you really need to hire a consultant. We do this by tuning into the energy of the person or situation that allows us to see, with a second sight, clarity and insight. We see a different perspective than what a psychological or personality trait test shows.
With frightening accuracy, we instinctively know who the troublemakers are in the workplace. It is up to the manager to make the final decision to keep, reduce their hours, switch them to a less prominent place in the firm or lay them off. Spending time with a person, even for a few minutes, can reveal hidden attributes not otherwise uncovered in an interview or computer screening. We instinctively know who has your best interests in mind, and who does not. My risk assessment services determine what protocols need to be placed to deter fraud. Assessing for risk, pinpoints weaknesses, and aligns the company’s goals with safety and protection protocols designed to prevent crimes before they occur.
We are the greatest threat to criminals and people who have intentions to cause harm. When intent is to cause great harm - the energy is picked up immediately. However, 98% of the time, the energies we pick up on are benevolent, people feeling sad about a loved one, or loss of a pet or a friend. Ironically, there are energies of people who are absolutely intimidated, but cannot get the courage to ask another person out. Many are terrified of rejection, talk themselves out of it, thinking the person is out of their league, they don’t feel good enough or may even end the relationship prematurely due to a fear of being left behind. This is one type of frustration that the empath picks up on and is extremely taxing. The empath must recognize that while giving time, love and attention to others is admirable, we have to take care of ourselves first. When feeling drained and suddenly exhausted, it is necessary to disconnect from the conversation and disengage or shut down our emotions temporarily to protect their energy. This is when righting the balance of the water in the lake needs to occur, shedding the excessive draining energy like a coat.
For all the men and women who have felt rejected, abandoned, worthless, ugly, unwanted, not good enough, not attractive, too chunky or not desired by the object of your affection, know that people really want to ask you out, but their fear is overwhelming. I’ve seen how men try to get the attention of a person while they are reading or working in a coffee shop. May I be frank here? Guys – stop waiting for them to look up and at you. Go over to them, and ask them what are they working on today, what are they reading – just start a conversation for Pete’s sake! Yes – I see that you are terrified of rejection, of being disappointed and hurt, of feeling the stab of a “NO, I’m married or am not looking to date right now” response.
Remember, the greatest opposition occurs right before your greatest victory. The more afraid, uncertain and fearful you are, the closer you are to achieving a positive outcome to your situation. If you can just push yourself each day to get closer to that one thing, you are one step closer to the win that is yours to take. We are your best friends, your family members, your next-door neighbor, and your next client. We can lead and guide you towards success in your relationships, helping your bottom line and getting you to the finish line of success.
(This is a work of fiction. Any names or characters, business or places, events or incidents are fictitious. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.)
PC: Dragen Zigic
